March 4, 2017

2017/8 - The Chosen One

Salam & hai!
hoping everyone in the best of health and imaan in sha Allah!


its been a crazy week and i haven't had time to blog at all pfft. i want to take some time off. But still alhamdulillah a'la kulli hal hehe❤ thankyou Allah for everything up till now. No words can describe how thankful i am right now being blessed by Your blessings. 

So this post i dedicate to one of my friend (you know who you are) and people out there whom right now maybe struggling the same battle. So basically, this one friend of mine, tengah struggle with her own feeling tau. You know that putus cinta punya feeling coz-i-nak-jadi-better-and-if-ada-jodoh-tak-kemana. She wanted to get closer to halal relationship. She kept thinking about getting married now but yeah so many things happen and the guy keep delaying and giving so many excuses, causing her to end up their relationship. But, up till now, she still can't move on. 5 years is a long time and i can understand why it is difficult for her to forget him and afraid if he meets another woman.

You know what sayang, from my opinion, there's nothing wrong about wishing to get married and have children. That doesn't make you look gatal or desperate at all and remember, you ended your previous relationship with a reason...you want to get closer to Allah. i mean, come on, in doing so, you should distance yourself from anything/anyone that will make that journey more difficult for you kan. 

Based on my previous experiences, yes, i had gone through all thoseeee things before hehehe. Dulu la, 5-6 years ago kot ke 10 years ago. tak ingat dah. Eh tapi 10 years ago baru darjah 6 lol 🤔🤔 i know how my previous relationship will affect my relationship with Allah so i decided to end it. Sama je macam apa yang you lalui right now. Its not easy to move on, i know. But if you let Allah be your motivation and keep your faith on Him, in sha Allah, everything akan jadi normal back. i have pujuk myself that i ended the relationship for better and to save my relationship with Allah, the one who holds my heart, my heartbeat. If he's the one, ada jodoh, ada lah kan. And at one point i realize, for me to dedicate myself, my precious emotions and time for someone who is not right and can leave me at any point, is not fair gaiszz. So, i choose to focus on the positive side and become survivor instead of a victim hehehe.

To choose a life partner, is one of the most important decision we all need to make in our life nanti. Ofcoz la it should not be taken lightly kan as we will spend the rest of our life with the chosen one tu nanti. Make du'a to Allah, that the one we choose nanti will benefit us in this world and hereafter.i started to seriously practice du'a for good spouse since last 2 years kot. lepas kawan kawan i sorang sorang naik pelamin. Before ni, i takpernah ambik serious pun this thing lol. i always always always make du'a for a companion with good character, a man who can lead me to do good things for the sake of Allah and not only cheer me on as i try to change my life for the better, but will hold hands and struggle together with me.

may Allah swt guide us to whoever is best for us. Have faith on Him. Otherwise, you'll find yourself falling for the wrong one. There's nothing wrong with waiting for the man of your dream. Sabar wak. Up till now, i still believe, if i stay on the right path, in sha Allah the right one will appear soon! That's Allah's promise 😘


i wrote this post, for myself. i want to remember these things for the years to come in sha Allah so that i won't easily fall for the wrong one hehe. Oh and for you my dearest friend, let Allah be your motivation and may Allah grant you what is best in this life and next life in sha Allah. i love you!

P/s : Just to make it clear, i dont have any problem with anyone that are in relationship okay! This is just my 2 cents and what i believe. Basically, its obviously for me. hehe. If you guys have some stories to share with, feel free to drop them on comment box beeeeellllooooow tau!

Barakallah,
Lots of Love,
S❤

9 comments:

  1. It's a very nice advice to your friend. I kinda like this post very much. It must be nice to have a friend like you who will give advices about life ��

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    1. awww thankyou for the good words 😬

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  2. I don't know if it just me but if the guy keep avoiding talking about marriage maybe he does not want to tie the knot just yet.

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  3. Your friends would be lucky to have a friend like you.. When it comes to jodoh, nothing could be done much besides waiting for the miracle..

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    1. when it comes to jodoh, put faith on Him kan hehe

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  4. I loves how you express you feelings though writing. Ckap pasal hati dan perasaan nie mmg payah sikit, apa lgi kalau pernah putus cinta.. mmg payah nak move on. Apapun smoga Allah mempertemukan kita dgn sorg yg taat kpd ALLAH dan mampu bimbing kita ke arah yg lebih baik. Insya'Allah :)

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    1. awww thankyou awak! amin in sha Allah❤

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  5. I hope you friend would get better. She would be of course since she have you!

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Here awak!